I write about Trauma, Sex, BDSM and other human conditions we experience in our daily lives.

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For Change to Happen, the Excuses need to Cease…

For Change to Happen, Excuses need to Cease… We are incredibly elaborate innovative beings. Especially when it comes to procrastination and making up excuses. We will create them to get out of circumstances that we do not want to take part in or may be difficult for us to do. “Want to go to my friend’s place this weekend?” “Aww, I would love to but…” We have mastered the way to create these excuses and…

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BDSM and the psychology behind the myths…

BDSM and the psychology behind the myths… Psychological well-being within BDSM is not harmful or pathologized as once thought. We have to understand, BDSM has commonly been misconstrued as some form linked with psychopathology. While the subculture of BDSM is still not widely studied in academic settings, as has been my experience with trying to convince a professor to supervise me on different studies, there are plenty of studies starting to emerge that reveal the…

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Let’s Talk about Men and Trauma…

Let’s Talk about Men and Trauma… It is regrettable that men and women encounter traumatic events. Trauma is not something you are diagnosed with, it is something that happens to you. When it comes to men and how we cope with trauma, there is a considerable difference between the genders. Statistics say that 60% of men in their lifetime will experience a traumatic event. Trauma can present in many forms, such as experienced in war…

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